FREE RELATIONSHIP GUIDE

How to get your ex back*Is it really over?

Download Is It Really Over? 3 Steps to Get Your Ex Back and learn how to hold back, heal, and reach out gently, with a 30-day no-contact tracker to keep you on track.

* No outcome is guaranteed. Results vary according to personal circumstances and participation. This guide offers educational relationship-coaching information and is not psychotherapy, medical care, crisis support, or a substitute for advice from a licensed professional.

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WHEN THE BREAKUP FEELS UNFINISHED

You want them back.

But something deeper needs your attention first.

The details may change, a text you almost sent, a photo you keep looking at, a question you cannot stop asking, but you keep ending up in the same place: longing, hope, and uncertainty.

Does this sound familiar?

  • You hover over your phone, imagining the relief of seeing their name reappear.

  • You scroll through their posts and stories, and overanalyze every photo.

  • You do not know whether to reach out, wait, or let go.

  • You want to say everything at once, and fear saying the wrong thing.

  • You are not sure if you are ready, or just afraid of being alone.

Imagine yourself:

  • You let the urge to text pass, and feel proud of it.

  • You turn toward yourself with gentleness instead of chasing.

  • You come back to the things that light you up.

  • You reach out lightly, with curiosity instead of desperation.

  • You choose your next step from wholeness, not emptiness.

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INSIDE THE FREE GUIDE

Start with the first 30 days.

This guide walks you through three steps, hold back, heal, and reach out gently, so that whatever happens next, you act from clarity and strength.

  • Understand why 30 days of no contact creates the space you both need
  • Heal your heart with simple daily self-care and a clear mind
  • Reach out gently with a low-pressure message, and match their energy
  • Track your progress with the built-in No-Contact Tracker
Sophie Parienti, Relationship & Communication Coach

ABOUT SOPHIE

I’ve spent 25 years listening to what couples are really carrying.

I’m Sophie Parienti, a Relationship & Communication Coach. I’ve worked with more than 1,250 individuals and couples, helping them understand what is happening underneath conflict and hurt, and find a clearer way forward. My work is practical, deeply human, and rooted in the belief that the way we communicate can change the way we love.

  • 25+ YEARS

    Working with relationships, communication, conflict, and connection.

  • 1,250+ PEOPLE COACHED

    Supporting individuals and couples through real relationship challenges.

  • PRACTICAL TOOLS

    Simple ways to recognize patterns, communicate needs, and interrupt conflict as it happens.

  • LIVED EXPERIENCE

    26 years of marriage, alongside decades of helping others navigate their own relationships.

WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER

A calmer way to reconnect, or to heal

Three steps, taken one at a time, to move from longing to clarity.

  1. HOLD BACK 30 DAYS

    Why space is the most powerful move you can make right now, and how to use it.

  2. HEAL, DON’T CHASE

    Return to yourself with gentle self-care, so any reconnection comes from wholeness, not emptiness.

  3. REACH OUT, BUT GO EASY

    Start with a light, low-pressure message and match their energy.

  4. FOCUS ON GROWTH

    Use the time to build resilience and come back to what lights you up.

  5. THE NO-CONTACT TRACKER

    A 30-day tracker with small milestones to help you stay committed.

  6. COMMON PITFALLS TO AVOID

    Do not overload the first message, over-read a reply, or force the big talk too soon.

  7. WHAT WORKED FOR ERIK

    The simple message that led to coffee, and to a relationship built from clarity.

TESTIMONIALS

What happens when things begin to shift?

Here’s what my clients say:

Honestly Sophie, you’ve helped us both so much so far, I can’t tell you how grateful I am. Your words have really helped, and I’m calmer.

EMMABali

Sophie played a crucial role in helping my husband and me navigate a challenging phase in our marriage. She swiftly identified and unraveled the root causes of where we were stuck, so we were able to move forward.

JYOTI SSingapore

From the very first session with Sophie, our perspective on the situation was completely different. We found more clarity, more understanding and more alignment between us. It was the first step toward a new relationship between us. Best decision ever!

VERONIQUE DMontreal

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